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Havening

Do you experience sadness and pain when you
think of pregnancy, birth, or the time afterwards?

I can help you to feel less overwhelmed, more relaxed,
and to find long-term balance in your life.

Trauma work

What is Havening

What is Delta Wave - or Havening Techniques?

There are events in our life which can cause a deep shock to our system; these are called traumatic events.  These events follow us through life. We might get triggered through a sound, a smell or an image and what follows is a whole body response which over time can make us sick. Through the ongoing effects of trauma our body might react with chronic stress, depression or anxiety; with an autoimmune disorder or other physical and mental challenges.

Going back in time, trauma was one way of keeping us, as humans safe. It stayed with us to remember a negative event and helped us to avoid repeating a possibly fatal mistake.
Ten thousands of years later our brain is still using the same mechanism in a vastly changed and far more complex world.
Havening allows us to lessen the negative impact of trauma. It helps us to get into a more relaxed state and through that build a more balanced life.

Delta waves are one of our brain waves we go in and out of every day. We can create delta waves on “demand” through simple touch on our hands, upper arms, and face. Once we are in delta waves our brain can heal our emotional trauma and get relieved of our emotional stress.
The beauty of this method lays in the fact that you can, but don’t need to tell your story. As we work with the emotional triggers you can trigger yourself, I don’t need to know your story and I don’t want to re-traumatize you by asking to repeat your story. 
No one can take away the memory of a trauma, but what can be achieved is to reduce or remove the emotional connection. Your memory of the event might get less overwhelming; people have described it as a bit fuzzy or foggy.  You aren’t as reactive to it anymore; you are more at peace in your life.

Delta Wave Techniques or Havening Techniques® is a holistic, very safe and, gentle method, it can be used to significantly reduce or eliminate the harmful consequences of trauma, to promote resilience and as a self-soothing tool.

​Be curious. With Havening you can heal your trauma. Be true to yourself and get help to find a healthy way forward, change and tune your inner colours and shine.

Meet Helle
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Meet Helle Rosenberg

From a young age, I felt an undeniable pull towards the world of women and children. Growing up, I often found myself in the company of families, where I would listen to mothers share their joys and struggles.

As a teenager, I began working with families, engaging in conversations with experienced mothers and observing their nurturing interactions with their children. I was captivated by the deep connections they formed with their children and the profound impact these relationships had on their lives. I too saw the effect of depression. This early exposure ignited a desire within me to be a source of support for women and children. I witnessed first-hand how anxiety and depression not only affected individuals but rippled through families, creating a shared journey of struggle and resilience.

My own experience as a mother of now four adult children further deepened my understanding of this landscape. Motherhood, while utterly exhausting at times, was a beautiful journey filled with learning, growth, and joy. It taught me invaluable lessons about myself and the importance of self-care, often only in hind sight. I found myself reflecting on the challenges of supporting loved ones and friends dealing with mental health issues, and I learned that resilience is cultivated through both hardship and connection. It was during these years that I realized my passion for helping others navigate the complexities of emotional trauma.

Throughout my career I have been privileged to work alongside many women facing mental health challenges, particularly in the realm of pregnancy and birth. As the co-founder of The Ruth Project Wairarapa, and for the time I have worked there, I dedicated myself to creating a safe space for mothers experiencing depression, anxiety, and birth trauma. The more I immersed myself in this work, the more I learned from the incredible women I supported. Their stories of courage and vulnerability inspired me to seek out deeper, more effective healing methods.

I began to notice a common thread among the women I worked with; while traditional approaches like medication and talk therapy had their place, they often fell short in addressing the underlying trauma. Many women felt isolated in their experiences, struggling to find a way out of their pain. They sought connection, understanding, and techniques to soothe their nervous systems but often found themselves feeling stuck.

This realization fuelled my passion to explore alternative healing modalities that could provide more immediate relief and foster genuine connection. I specialize in supporting women during pregnancy, birth and postpartum time and for me postpartum, Latin for after birth, means any time after a pregnancy however long ago this might be. I am guiding women towards lifting their depression, anxiety, and PTSD, and helping them forge stronger bonds with their children.

Together, we work to let go of traumas, be it a birth trauma or other traumas through challenges in the perinatal time, preparing for positive birth experiences, and ultimately finding peace.

Through my journey, I have come to understand that healing is not just an individual process; it is a collective one. I cherish the privilege of supporting families as they navigate their challenges, and I am committed to being a compassionate guide on their path to recovery. My lived experience, combined with my professional expertise, allow me to connect deeply with my clients, fostering a warm and trusting environment where healing can truly begin.

 

I invite you to join me on a journey, as we explore the depth of your experiences together, finding strength in connection and hope in healing.

Testimonials

I received Havening through Helle for some time, focusing on both life traumas, PTSD and anxiety prior to a planned surgery. I feel incredibly blessed to have had the opportunity to reframe how I perceived and recalled memories of traumas, allowing me to release unhealthy attachment to past experiences. I did extensive work prior to an operation which gave me the power to rewrite my narrative and therefore reframe my entire experience. I went from being incredible anxious and fearful, to feeling at peace and calm about the operation. My recovery was positive and I felt a strong sense of relief as a result of Havening. The way Havening uses touch combined with visualisations is so powerful, it provided me with instant relief from crippling anxiety which I was able to integrate into everyday life. I highly recommend Helle as a Havening practitioner. Havening can change experiences and lives in such a powerful way. I highly recommend. A


 

I was quite sceptical at first about Havening, but Helle eased my mind and explained how everything works and assured me, so I gave it a shot.
And I can officially say it truly helped ease my anxiety going into the birth of my second child. I have also used self-Havening taught by Helle while preparing for me third child.
Helle made me feel safe and comfortable. Thank you Helle, I’d happily return again. C


 

When I had a session with Helle, I was amazed with the immediate changes I felt within myself. I still had trauma from an event that happened 20 years ago, which was still impacting me. I now can view the event in a much more positive way that no longer causes me anxiety and emotional distress.
Thank you so much Helle I would recommend Havening to anyone who would like to work through any traumatic life experiences. J


 

Helle visited me in the home when my daughter was a couple of month old. Helle has a very kind, gentle and nurturing nature. The support and love that I felt during her visit really helped me to drop the stress and worry and gave me a lift in my confidence. The gentle stroke of havening soothed my nervous system shifting me from a busy mind of all the responsibilities to a calm gentle here and now is the only Moment. The calm stillness stayed with me and those old worries and stressors didn’t return. Helle has a beautiful gift and I highly recommend seeing her. Nurturing the environment of every mum is going to nurture the inner world of mum and therefore she can be present with her most valued job. Mothering herself and her baby. M

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